Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Shand with the following comment:
MARRIED INTO MY FAMILY, HIS WIFE AND ALL HIS CHILDREN AND DESCENDANTS ARE COUSINS OF MINE, I WOULD BE HAPPY TO PROVIDE FURTHER FAMILY DETAILS TO PEOPLE THAT REQUEST INFORMATION ON ANGELICA MANNING HARVEY, OR HER HARVEY RELATIVES.THANK YOU, DAVID